I got an email from a reader the other day. It asked me about my view on lingerie for larger women.

Whether or not I thought lingerie on a larger woman was something that I thought would turn her man on, and if she should consider buying some lingerie as a gift for him.

Before you start wondering about that let me explain a little. I'm not suggesting here that she should buy lingerie for him to wear. I'm suggesting that if she buys lingerie for herself, and wears it for him, then that's as much a gift for him as it is for her.

It's a great idea, most women love lingerie, so do their men, when their women wear it for him. I wrote an article about it called Sexy Lingerie, A Gift For Him, Or You?

So if she thinks that he'd love her to wear some slinky sexy lingerie then she can kill 2 birds with one stone. She gets to buy some lovely lingerie for herself, and he gets to see her in it.

Now to my readers question. What about larger women? She said that she considered herself to be unattractive, and so didn't think that he'd find her all that attractive. And that trying to cover herself in sexy lingerie may just make her look silly.

Now of course it's purely a subjective thing, however I'm pretty confident that men who are in relationships with larger women will be delighted to find that she is willing to wear some slinky clothes for him, regardless of her size.

If he's in a relationship with you then he obviously knows that you're a larger woman. If he found that unattractive then he wouldn't be in the relationship. If he loves you he finds you attractive for that reason too.

You may well find that it's all in your head, that he finds you delightful, larger or not, and that it's you that believes he doesn't. Maybe you've never given him the chance.

I think the best way to find out is to find some great lingerie, wear it for him, and see what happens. I'd be most surprised if he didn't love it.

Alternatively why not just ask him? Perhaps phrase it like this. Hi hon, I've seen come beautiful lingerie online today, I wouldn't mind buying some. Do you think I'd look good in it?

See what he says. But I think the best test is just to get some and wear it.

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iPhone accessories of course, that's what you buy for the guy with an iPhone.

Be it birthday, Christmas or any other occasion, there's a heap of great iPhone accessories for him to own. If he's got an iPhone you've got a long list of great gift ideas that are guaranteed to make your gift giving tasks easier for a little while.

Here's just a few great iPhone accessories for the wonderful Apple iPhone.

Now an iPhone isn't the cheapest of cell phones. Of course it's about the best, but certainly not cheap.

So one of the most obvious accessories for his iPhone is a simple protective cover to make sure it isn't scratched, dented or broken. If he's got an expensive mobile phone like that he doesn't want to be paying for repairs. iPhone protection is like insurance.

And there's a range of choices, hard cover, soft cover, whatever sort of cover you think he'll like best. All sorts of colors and all sorts of covers.

They range in price. You can even get waterproof cases so he can make a call in the surf if he wants.

Of course that's just the start of the iPhone accessories that you can choose from for his gift. There's lots more. Lots. And I'd suggest you consider more than one. A good cover for his phone is only $30 or so. Or there are good cheap ones for $10.

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